ASDF Help Thread. [Serious]

[Flying Sheep]

That's the night job though. I'm was talking about the ones who just stand up the front all day just selling the meals. There's nothing hard about their job really.

[atomtengeralattjaro]

well maybe but i wouldn't try it for more than a day..

[Flying Sheep]

Yeh. The night job seems fun though. And awesome new avvie Atom. ^.^

[cyan]

See, I was right...

Lunar, I think you'd like BW...

[Flying Sheep]

See, I was right...

Lunar, I think you'd like BW...

No you weren't. You were talking about waiters running around and crap. McDonalds doesn't have waiters. Hell would freeze over before McDonalds got civilised... >.<

[lunar_furor]

No, Sheepy mah boi. She's right, during the day if you're on tills it's not just your job to stand there and ring in orders. You gotta clean, keep your stuff stocked like milk, sauces, etc. Much of the time you have to get and serve the orders too. There is no job at mcdonalds that is just stand there and look nice, and if you have it in your head that there is a job like that anywhere, then maybe it's good you're unemployed, no offense. I don't think anyone who thinks they should be able to do nothing for money should ever have a job is all.

[Flying Sheep]

There ARE people who do nothing and get paid. They're called bums that live mooching off the government. I'm just saying, an up the front job at McDonalds is one of the easiest jobs out there. There really isn't too much to it.

[ForrestKeys]

There ARE people who do nothing and get paid. They're called bums that live mooching off the government.

Being a bum is not a job. We are talking about jobs here, mate.

[atomtengeralattjaro]

I'm just saying, an up the front job at McDonalds is one of the easiest jobs out there. There really isn't too much to it.

aren't there "leaflet givers" (i dunno how they're called in english) around there? people who stand around in crowded places and stand in your way to give you leaflets/flyers and/or stop you and talk you into somethinging with something for something sometime, usually costing you money and/or time. It's an easy job, lots of students get these as summer jobs but there are middle aged people who do this too..

[cyan]

yes, you'll see a lot of those in big cities...

[Flying Sheep]

I'm just saying, an up the front job at McDonalds is one of the easiest jobs out there. There really isn't too much to it.

aren't there "leaflet givers" (i dunno how they're called in english) around there? people who stand around in crowded places and stand in your way to give you leaflets/flyers and/or stop you and talk you into somethinging with something for something sometime, usually costing you money and/or time. It's an easy job, lots of students get these as summer jobs but there are middle aged people who do this too..

Never heard of them. Sounds like a boring crap job.

[Xequos]

So does standing around doing nothing...

[vraiment]

So guys, I've got the next problem:

What's the sum of 2+2?


Moving on to something serious... I have this of my age that came with her sister to pass the summer when we were young, by monetary reasons that stopped 10 years ago. And the last December my grandparents, an aunt (not her mother) and my two cousins came to pass the New Year's Eve with my family, she was grew up and now is a cute girl... We chatted nothing important and passed as family the parties... when they were leaving, my grandfather came with the idea I join them, I could in that moment but a trip was arranged, I'd travel to Mexico City first and pass a weekend with my cousin and then go to my grandfathers' place and stay with them a week. It was a cool idea so I accepted... While in Mexico City I have to admit I felt in love with my cousin... and her feelings weren't too different, but we didn't say anything , we just stayed together alone while we could... When I went with my grandparents we chatted a lot in MSN... and by chat we accepted that we wanted to stay along with each other despite of the problems (at first she wasn't very sure but at the end she accepted). We passed like 2 or 3 months chatting by MSN and texting each other. Suddenly she stopped connecting and answering my messages, I continued to texting her but at the end I got mad and stopped (there are reasons for her to make this, she don't have always credit in her cellphone and isn't connected to MSN very often)... She will come in october again as my sister is getting married, and I want to talk with her, at first I was mad and I just wanted to tell her that she was a b*tch and stuff like that but now I've calm down and think again, and I want to spent those days with her like there isn't any problems, and then... well... We'll see...

Any suggestion? I don't want to hear "you live to far and she's your cousin... so it's impossible, quit...", thanks a lot...

[Xequos]

If you want to do it, do it.

[Flying Sheep]

Yes, you should approach her. But don't approach her with anger, and say she's a bitch and stuff. Anger never solves anything, it just makes the situation worse. Even if you feel that you are in the right, and she's in the wrong, DO NOT go accusing her, coz then she might ever make things up with you again. You should be the man, and approach her really friendly like, just as if she's sorta a friend you haven't seen in a long while. Ask her why she didn't return your texts, sure, but don't go accusing her, and saying thinngs like, "Why the fuck didn't you answer my texts and get on msn you stupid bitch?" And ask something more like, "Hey, is something wrong? You haven't returned my texts, so is something wrong, or did I do something to anger you? Or something like that, which is a lot more passive.

Yeh, that's the one thing you should do, be passive, not angry and aggressive, and see if you can figure out if you've upset her somehow, or there's something wrong with her life. Just be friendly and show that you care. Girls are strange creatures sometimes, but if you hold your anger, hopefully it should work.

[Xequos]

I have to agree with FS.
You could ask a relative if something happened to her or something though.

[lunar_furor]

My friend and I just had a discussion on such a thing (being in love with a relative) today. I cannot tell you how glad I am that you actually said it publicly! I may find it odd, but that's for me, personally. I how ever think that it's great you can be happy with who you want, and should. As generic as these help's are they aren't wrong. I personally would do something like this.

Hey [insert name here] how are you? What you been up to lately? I was just wondering why did you stop texting me, is everything ok?

After that, just do what you did before, don't be fake. If you could be honest with us, complete strangers, you can with her.

[cyan]

I'm not totally alien to that concept either... just ask her if anything's wrong, be nice, and yeah, be honest... don't be angry with her either, it may not be her fault, like you said

[Flying Sheep]

Things happen in life, that can't be helped. It's how you approach the problem is how you can help.

[I am Smiley]

I cant lose my extra 92 pounds of body fat. What should I do?