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hey lunar. i want to comment on one thing, and remember this is only my opinion.
I do believe that you can...have someone so to speak.
okay maybe thats the wrong word.
you cant controll them, and you cant physically posses them, and you can NEVER take them.
but.
they can give themselves to you.....
like they can give you thir fheart. to hold on to and to have. and you can give yours to them.
that is what i believe.
i give michele my heart body and soul, to do with it what she wishes. yes, this means the trust must be infinite, and so it is.
but you are right, its the persons choice to give themselves to you.
again, just my opinion, maybe its a different way to look at it?
I do believe that you can...have someone so to speak.
okay maybe thats the wrong word.
you cant controll them, and you cant physically posses them, and you can NEVER take them.
but.
they can give themselves to you.....
like they can give you thir fheart. to hold on to and to have. and you can give yours to them.
that is what i believe.
i give michele my heart body and soul, to do with it what she wishes. yes, this means the trust must be infinite, and so it is.
but you are right, its the persons choice to give themselves to you.
again, just my opinion, maybe its a different way to look at it?
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Here is exactly how I see it.
No matter what people think, they are not mind readers.
Lets say, *Candace really liked this guy *Steven. She couldn't get him out of her head, she talked with him every day, they were inseparable. Do you think that she could ever get the guts to come out and say how she felt about Steven? NO? She's going to hold back because she "doesn't think he likes her in that way." Of course, in a ton of people's minds, it's "the mans job to ask the ladies out". Well, I don't believe that at all. But, the point is, Candace wont say anything, and if Steven has no idea, how will he find out? He may really like her just as much, but neither of them will ever know. That's why, Lunar, flirting and "hitting on" someone is there. That way, you can know whether or not someone likes you, or finds you attractive. Yeah, we should probably just come out and say it, but our nerves get in the way. The butterflies in your stomach don't stop flying. The lump in your throat just doesn't go down.
When it comes to relationships, it's much more than someone just "coming along". You have to work towards it. Find new people. Get to know them. Let them get to know you! Yes, you say that you're happy, but there may be a time when you think to yourself, "I really wish I had a lady to keep me company."
You don't have to take my advice, but that's just how I feel about it.
No matter what people think, they are not mind readers.
Lets say, *Candace really liked this guy *Steven. She couldn't get him out of her head, she talked with him every day, they were inseparable. Do you think that she could ever get the guts to come out and say how she felt about Steven? NO? She's going to hold back because she "doesn't think he likes her in that way." Of course, in a ton of people's minds, it's "the mans job to ask the ladies out". Well, I don't believe that at all. But, the point is, Candace wont say anything, and if Steven has no idea, how will he find out? He may really like her just as much, but neither of them will ever know. That's why, Lunar, flirting and "hitting on" someone is there. That way, you can know whether or not someone likes you, or finds you attractive. Yeah, we should probably just come out and say it, but our nerves get in the way. The butterflies in your stomach don't stop flying. The lump in your throat just doesn't go down.
When it comes to relationships, it's much more than someone just "coming along". You have to work towards it. Find new people. Get to know them. Let them get to know you! Yes, you say that you're happy, but there may be a time when you think to yourself, "I really wish I had a lady to keep me company."
You don't have to take my advice, but that's just how I feel about it.
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I have felt that way and it made me miserable, so I thought to my self. Get over it you friggen piece of useless crap. I felt much better the day after! Which sounds really backwards now that I type it.... in any case. I don't block anyone out. If someone asks me a question, ANY question. I answer it... in person. Not online of course I can't trust anyone on the internet out side of here.... and wikipedia.
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Yes. What do you do when you've been with someone for over a year and your heart still stops beating and speeds up at the same time? Im still trying to figure out that one...
lol
okay but now for a health problem.
does anyone know better ways to get rid of ARD? its Acid Reflux Disease, and basically your stomache makes too much acid and causes almost constant heartburn, no matter what you eat. it is greatly related to stress as wwell.
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okay but now for a health problem.
does anyone know better ways to get rid of ARD? its Acid Reflux Disease, and basically your stomache makes too much acid and causes almost constant heartburn, no matter what you eat. it is greatly related to stress as wwell.
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To answer Shadow earlier. She moved for college.
To answer Hobo. Instead of posting a text wall I found this article and several others. I think it may help you.
http://www.patienthealthinternational.c ... 01994.aspx
To answer Hobo. Instead of posting a text wall I found this article and several others. I think it may help you.
http://www.patienthealthinternational.c ... 01994.aspx
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I have a problem.
Why is it, that in todays society, the only thing that is ever being said is something about sex? Not to be brutal, but it's true.
Every sitcom, every T.V drama, even commercials. There's something about sex in everything. And it's always supposed to be funny. Sex isn't funny. I dont know why people think that it's hilarious.
Can someone clear this up for me?
Why is it, that in todays society, the only thing that is ever being said is something about sex? Not to be brutal, but it's true.
Every sitcom, every T.V drama, even commercials. There's something about sex in everything. And it's always supposed to be funny. Sex isn't funny. I dont know why people think that it's hilarious.
Can someone clear this up for me?
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I do notice its like that.
i think every once in a while you can make lil cute jokes about it with your significant other, but to put it on tv all the time is wrong and stupid.
i think every once in a while you can make lil cute jokes about it with your significant other, but to put it on tv all the time is wrong and stupid.
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i have a problem
believe it or not im not a very sociable person
most times when i have some free time i just stay home and watch tv or play video games. i just feel like im not being productive
don't get me wrong, i have plenty of friends, its just that all those friends are busy doing something of their own. i just feel as if i should be getting out some more or something
anybody have any advice?
believe it or not im not a very sociable person
most times when i have some free time i just stay home and watch tv or play video games. i just feel like im not being productive
don't get me wrong, i have plenty of friends, its just that all those friends are busy doing something of their own. i just feel as if i should be getting out some more or something
anybody have any advice?