ASDF Help Thread. [Serious]

Post by **keja** » Fri Jan 30, 2009 8:43 pm

*obeys*

Post by **Shai'tan** » Sun Feb 01, 2009 1:20 am

Don't spam this thread!

- Shai'tan

hobobuster · Post by **hobobuster** » Sun Feb 01, 2009 3:18 am

okay... heres another one... ( i seem to have a lot of problems eh?)

right now i should be the happiest guy on earth but....

dammit i just remembered, i think i already posted this before.....

I was going to say, i had an amazing day with my amazing girl but for some reason since the minute i got home, i feel so extremely depressed..

i dont know why....

im completely and entirely happy with michele, but dam,....the minute im not around her, that stupid morose and somber feeling returns....

Post by **Shai'tan** » Sun Feb 01, 2009 10:00 am

I guess that only can be explained by you loving her so much?

I have a problem, I'm hungry... I'm gonna solve this problem myself...

Post by **lunar_furor** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 2:42 pm

@ Hobo:
No offense but you may have called this, "Help me with my being in love with Dom... wait that's a good thing and it seems to solve all of my problems", and I wouldn't have noticed a difference. I'd say just uh... fill your life with things you like. I have those depressed states also but I just kind of put up with it I guess... hmmm... Well I can't provide help other than that because I'm not in the same situation.

@Shai:
I have the same problem and am gonna do the same.

lil timmy · Post by **lil timmy** » Mon Feb 02, 2009 5:09 pm

Do you and Michele talk a lot? I think its a physcological effect then, because your mind gets used to socializing a lot and being active so if you go home and sit around it makes you depressed... I don't know the details of what is going on in your head but I think thats how it works...

That happens to me sometimes if I am out partying and goin crazy, then I come home and sit around being all depressed and lonely.. I have a friend who is a sphyciatrist in the making..maybe I'll ask him next time we hang out..

DomTar275 · Post by **DomTar275** » Wed Feb 04, 2009 1:40 am

I have a mental problem.

It's happened twice lately...

I'll be fine and happy, until either my mom or dad yells at me. After that, I'll get really really mad and upset. I'll go into this mental breakdown where no one can help except my notebook.

Even when Bobby tries to calm me down, all I do is yell insults at him until my head is clear and I realize I just said random insults to push him away.
Not saying that I want to push him away, but when I'm in that state, I don't want to talk to anyone.

Maybe an example will help.

I had been picked up from my friend, Hannah's house one evening from one of her nice parties. I got in the car, said hello to my parents and got on the phone with Bobby. When I exited the car, my mom yelled, "MICHELE." and I turned around and yelled back at her. So then, I got inside and when I did, she yelled at me even more. Now, normally this wouldn't bother me because I always get yelled at. Well, this time I ran upstairs and started crying in the bathroom, ripping at my hair and scratching the sink counter. I couldn't stop myself. So when I actually was forced to leave the bathroom, I went downstairs and my mom confronted me and asked me what my problem was. I didn't know. So I went downstairs and I was panting with anger and frustration, pulling at my hair again and digging my nails into my arm, leaving red marks. Eventually I wrote down what I was thinking and I called Bobby, only to make him angry at me with my attitude.

I don't know what's going on, but if you can help that would be amazing.

hobobuster · Post by **hobobuster** » Wed Feb 04, 2009 1:44 am

Sweetheart...

I wasnt angry at you, i told you. I only was there to comfort you. Ive also realised that i need to be more comforting....

I dont feel like saying anything else in public about this (sorry lovely asdf-ers, thats just the way i feel lol), we'll talk tomorrow when we're on the couch together okay my love?

who has some other ideas about it?

Post by **keja** » Wed Feb 04, 2009 9:27 am

I kind of do the same thing except I bite my had and smash things. what you should do is sit down with you parents and tell them the cause of the problem and see what they (and you) can do to help prevent it. Writing down the causes of your distress on a piece of paper and sticking them to a wall for them to read helps.

Post by **lunar_furor** » Thu Feb 05, 2009 4:37 am

Well it would help if we knew what ye were being yelled at... in very little detail, don't want to impose on personal life. I used to get pissed off at ... everything. I broke holes in walls, almost broke my friends nose, lucky he moved back a little. I once threw a rock at a kid who argued with me over something or other. I dunno what I did but I just don't care anymore... seriously! I kind of just uh... well... hmmm...

Ok so someone calls me a faggot or something right? My response is.

"I'm more of a faggot than you will ever be!"

I don't care what they think. I know I'm better than that guy. I am a bigger kind dude who could hold his own in a fight... but I'm more or less pacifist. I don't fight. The other day a guy chocked me against a wall... poorly if I may add... I did nothing... he attacks me again though I'll defend my self. My point is this. Try your best... and it's not easy at first... to just uh... ignore things. I respect my dad and mom more than anyone... then again they don't yell at me. But my step dad did when we lived with him. I just put up with it, stayed in my room and hoped that one day he'd get hit by a truck... never happened but I'm more or less fine even after his abusiveness because I ignored him or rather put up with it. I would ultimately suggest talking with your parents but I know, professionally, how god dang hard that can be. So I may not have helped but you never know. Just get by, stuff will eventually get better... I think that's my point.

JKL;!!!!! · Post by **JKL;!!!!!** » Sat Feb 07, 2009 8:06 pm

I always do homework to calm myself down...

Sometimes when I get really angry, I would just think why the person who's angry at me is angry....
For example, there may be a day where I can't finish my homework so I stay up late. My parents yell at me, and I get angry, because I'm doing my homework! But I realize my parents are angry at me because they can't get sleep when I'm doing my homework...
Everything has a reason.... if you find that reason, i think you'll be happy...

lil timmy · Post by **lil timmy** » Sun Feb 08, 2009 8:53 am

I agree with jkl; to some extent. I beleive that you need to have a lot of empathy, and put yourself in the shoes of other people to see how they feel.

When I get really angry I sit in a chair, close my eyes, hold my hands above my head, and slowly dig my finger nails into my thumbs.
Then when I have my emotions under control I think of a solution so that I do not get put into the same situation again.

Sun Oct 20, 2019 5:22 pm

what if my internet connection always disconnects in the middle of a download from Rapidshare (which doesn't allow me to re-download it only the next day)? that makes me really angry.
sometimes I find myself thinking about getting a boxing sack. I hate being angry to things that can't be "phisycally" repaired/beaten. Like when a computer doesn't do what it's supposed to.

Post by **CX gamer** » Sun Feb 08, 2009 3:00 pm

I'd suggest paying your internet bills...

steel · Post by **steel** » Mon Feb 09, 2009 6:49 pm

I need help. I downloaded a browser toolbar and I don't know how to un-download it. TT Help me!

Post by **atomtengeralattjaro** » Mon Feb 09, 2009 6:55 pm

well what kind of browser do you use?
every kind has something like "Tools -> "Addons" or "Plug-ins". Any addon you install, should appear on a list there, with an option to uninstall.

Toolbars are useless and make no use

steel · Post by **steel** » Mon Feb 09, 2009 7:45 pm

I can't find my toolbar on there! I got the toolbar from the smiley central aand I can't find it! HELP!

Post by **atomtengeralattjaro** » Mon Feb 09, 2009 7:57 pm

try Start menu - control panel - Add or remove programs.

lil timmy · Post by **lil timmy** » Mon Feb 09, 2009 10:12 pm

Try smashing your computer against a wall.

steel · Post by **steel** » Tue Feb 10, 2009 3:39 am

Add/Remove Programs wont load...and I need some real help

EDIT:I got it, next question